Kia Ora,
AKA Ms Soul Fuelled Sister


Will you keep living by default or finally live by design?
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Kia Ora, I'm Lisa Miller
Founder of Soul Fuelled Sisters | Coach | Speaker | Creator of They Told Us...
I believe many women reach midlife and quietly realise they've been living a life that was never fully their own.
Not because they've done anything wrong.
But because, like all of us, they've inherited stories about who they should be, what success looks like, how hard they should work, and what it means to be a good woman.
Over time, those stories become our default.
We stop hearing ourselves.
And somewhere along the way we begin asking...
What about me?
That's the work I do.
I help women stop living by inherited stories, reconnect with their own wisdom, and choose a life that feels true to them.
Not by giving them more answers.
But by helping them trust the ones already within them.
My own journey began in midlife. After leaving an unhappy marriage, I found myself with two children, bad credit, and no clear roadmap for what came next.
What I discovered surprised me.
The biggest thing keeping me stuck wasn't my circumstances.
It was the stories I'd been living by.
Stories about what was possible.
What I deserved.
Who I thought I had to be.
As I began questioning those beliefs, listening to my own knowing and making different choices, my life started to change.
Not overnight.
And not because I was lucky.
But because I stopped trying to force a life that no longer fit and started choosing one that did.
Over the years I've built a coaching business, bought my own home, become a digital nomad, travelled the world and, most importantly, created a life that feels peaceful, joyful and deeply aligned with who I am.